I went back and read what I posted yesterday and realized that it could be taken the wrong way; we’re not giving up, just trying to move forward with our lives after being at a standstill for such a long time.
We have one more IUI – hopefully coming up in a few weeks, but after last time, who knows – and then if that fails, we meet with the doctor to discuss what comes next.
As I’ve said before, we’re both open to IVF, and that may be in our not-so-distant future. But in the meantime, life goes on.
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I’m very glad you are ready to move on.
I only recently came to this understanding myself – that it is no use to only concentrate on this one thing and let the life pass by. Until only recently I had a feeling that if I didn’t do my very best and be totally concentrated, then the Universe (or God or whatever you believe in) might get a signal I don’t want the baby that much and then maybe it won’t happen. But it doesn’t work like that, I’ve found out. Somehow in this case, wanting it really bad does not seem to make much difference. So life needs to go on but of course I still hope it will happen one day, and wish the same to you. Good luck!